Women

[Snowreap]

Yes it was a casual appointment and we didn't even really lock down a particular activity. Part of the problem definitely is that I feel like I anticipated seeing her more than she obviously did. I refuse to be that guy.

you're a busy guy, with a fairly rigid schedule. you didn't just anticipate seeing her, you anticipated seeing her at a specific time that you made room in your schedule for.

she might have anticipated seeing you just as much, but if her life is less structured she could very well have not realized that, on that day at least, it was "now or never" because while she was free to see you afterwards, your schedule wasn't as flexible. from her perspective, she might be bumming right now because you clearly think more of your schedule than you think of her. what does it say about her that you think getting to bed on time is more important than spending time with her?

yes, I know that was a horrible way to phrase it. but coming up with horrible ways to look at something is a useful way to figure out what the hell that other person was thinking.

-ken