06-10-2009, 12:08 PM
The big problem IMO is whether or not someone follows through with what they say. If I say I'm going to meet someone, even just to sit and have coffee, it means I'm going to do my best to keep my schedule clear for that event.
Sure, sometimes plans change, sometimes you lose track of the time, but ditching someone at the last minute for frivolous reasons is inconsiderate, and not a good way to maintain friendships of any sort.
Plus, obviously this reveals that you would never be able to rely on her to attend a raid on time, and if she can't be relied on for future Purge raids, well really, what's the point?
Sure, sometimes plans change, sometimes you lose track of the time, but ditching someone at the last minute for frivolous reasons is inconsiderate, and not a good way to maintain friendships of any sort.
Plus, obviously this reveals that you would never be able to rely on her to attend a raid on time, and if she can't be relied on for future Purge raids, well really, what's the point?